Before Last Wish
The conversations worth having early

Daniel Krajewski

Estates Writer, Before Last Wish

Daniel writes about wills, probate and estate administration. He is not your lawyer, a point he makes roughly once per article, and means.

Contact: editor@beforelastwish.com

28 articles by Krajewski

Digital Legacy

A digital estate checklist

The digital material across this site, condensed into a sequence you can work through in an evening.

Daniel Krajewski··3 min read

Wills & Estates

The annual review: half an hour, once a year

Plans go out of date silently. A short annual check catches the things that have changed and prevents most of the problems on this site.

Daniel Krajewski··3 min read

Wills & Estates

Making a will yourself, and when not to

Home-made and online wills are valid in principle and they are where most of the disputes come from. Knowing which situations are straightforward is what determines whether to risk it.

Daniel Krajewski··4 min read

Family Conversations

When you are both the executor and the family

Administering an estate while grieving, for a family who are also beneficiaries, is a combination of roles that generates most of the complaints made against executors.

Daniel Krajewski··4 min read

Digital Legacy

Phones, laptops and what to do with the devices

The physical devices hold the keys to everything else, and what is done with them in the first days determines what can be recovered.

Daniel Krajewski··3 min read

Wills & Estates

Life insurance and death benefits

Insurance and pension death benefits frequently pass outside the will, which makes the beneficiary form more consequential than the will itself for those assets.

Daniel Krajewski··4 min read

Wills & Estates

What happens to the animals

Pets are property in law, they are family in fact, and the gap between those two positions produces some genuinely bad outcomes.

Daniel Krajewski··4 min read

Digital Legacy

Identity theft after a death

Deceased people are targeted for fraud because the accounts remain open, nobody is monitoring them, and the death is announced publicly.

Daniel Krajewski··3 min read

Wills & Estates

Leaving money to charity

Charitable legacies are a substantial source of funding for the voluntary sector and a common source of family dispute, and both facts are worth knowing.

Daniel Krajewski··4 min read

Family Conversations

Second marriages, stepchildren and competing claims

Blended families are common and the default legal arrangements were designed for a different structure, which produces predictable and avoidable conflict.

Daniel Krajewski··4 min read

Digital Legacy

Making a digital inventory

The single most useful digital preparation is a list of what exists. It contains no passwords, takes an evening, and turns an impossible task into a manageable one.

Daniel Krajewski··3 min read

Wills & Estates

The letter of wishes, and who gets the clock

Disputes over personal possessions are more common and more bitter than disputes over money, and a short informal document prevents most of them.

Daniel Krajewski··4 min read

Family Conversations

Talking to parents about money

The financial conversation is harder than the medical one, because it touches independence, inheritance and the suspicion that you are asking for your own reasons.

Daniel Krajewski··4 min read

Wills & Estates

Assets in another country

Cross-border estates are considerably more complicated than domestic ones, and the complications are frequently discovered by an executor rather than anticipated by the testator.

Daniel Krajewski··4 min read

Digital Legacy

The email account is the master key

Almost every other account can be recovered through the email address attached to it, which makes email the single most important digital asset and the one most worth planning for.

Daniel Krajewski··3 min read

Advance Directives

Mental capacity: what it means and how it is assessed

Capacity is decision-specific, time-specific and presumed to be present. Families frequently misunderstand all three, with consequences for the decisions that follow.

Daniel Krajewski··4 min read

Wills & Estates

When a will is challenged

Disputes over wills are expensive, slow and destructive, and most of them arise from a small number of avoidable circumstances.

Daniel Krajewski··4 min read

Advance Directives

Power of attorney for finances: the document to do first

A power of attorney only works if it is made while the person still has capacity, which means the moment people realise they need one is frequently the moment it becomes impossible.

Daniel Krajewski··4 min read

Wills & Estates

Estate and inheritance tax: the general shape

Systems differ enormously and a few structural features recur. Knowing which type of system applies to you determines what planning is even relevant.

Daniel Krajewski··4 min read

Digital Legacy

Cryptocurrency and assets that vanish

Some digital assets are irrecoverable without a specific piece of information. There is no institution to appeal to, and a substantial amount has already been lost this way.

Daniel Krajewski··4 min read

Wills & Estates

Trusts: when they are worth the complexity

Trusts are marketed heavily and needed by a minority. Knowing the problems they actually solve is the fastest way to work out whether you have one of them.

Daniel Krajewski··4 min read

Digital Legacy

Social media accounts after a death

Platforms have developed policies for accounts of people who have died, and the options differ considerably. What you can arrange in advance is more than most people realise.

Daniel Krajewski··3 min read

Wills & Estates

Probate: what the process actually involves

The legal process of administering an estate takes longer than families expect, and understanding the sequence makes the delay less alarming.

Daniel Krajewski··4 min read

Wills & Estates

Choosing an executor, and what you are actually asking

The job involves months of administration, legal responsibility, and frequently the management of family disappointment. Most people appoint on the basis of affection.

Daniel Krajewski··4 min read

Wills & Estates

Dying without a will: what actually happens

Intestacy rules decide who inherits when there is no will, and they frequently produce results that bear no relation to what the person would have chosen.

Daniel Krajewski··4 min read

Wills & Estates

What a will actually does, and what it cannot do

A will is a narrower instrument than most people assume. A surprising amount of what people expect it to cover passes outside it entirely.

Daniel Krajewski··4 min read